This end of the school year stress has been really overwhelming. It's just that they squeeze every last event in to the final days and when you add that to the EXTRA graduation activities, well, I just start to feel like I'll never get through it all.
Another big thing going on right now: we're changing banks. Not because we disliked our old bank, but the bank that holds our mortgage offered us a much better overall package. It seemed to make sense, but there are lots of little loose ends things that need to be in place before I can say this is a done deal and start fresh with the new bank.
Not to mention, learning a new format for online bill paying, etc. I'm sure it will be fine - the new banks' ways look much easier and much more streamlined, but it's just making sure everything is covered.
You know, things like making sure places we've set up our debit cards on hold when we need to use them (adding money to our pay as you go cell phones, for example) - all that stuff needs to be changed and that's just ONE example.
On Tuesday, Buddy came home with a paper stating that the boys needed to wear nice dress slacks and a shirt with a tie. Now, I could have sent him in his uniform, but those pants are looking a bit ratty by this time of the year. So, after the Evil Twin got home, we ran out to Kmart and purchased some khaki pants. He'll wear a white button down oxford that is already in his closet, his school tie, navy socks and his dress shoes.
Then, they need to change into their class shirt (special shirts ordered by their teacher early in the year, stating that they are 2009 graduates of their school - they're very nice looking), jeans or shorts, socks and tennis shoes for their field trip to Camden Park. They also need a watch, because the teacher has them all meet up with her every hour. So, we bought Buddy an inexpensive, but cool looking, watch too.
I love being given all that heads up on things that are necessary!
And now, maybe you can see why I'm ready for summer to begin...even if I know by the end, I'll be ready to pull my hair out! LOL.
I'm taking my good camera to the graduation, so maybe I'll have some fun shots to share with you all tomorrow!
breathe sweetie- this time next week things should be calmer...and there is always wine to ease the path
ReplyDeleteI hear your anxiety, it really is a lot at the end isn't it?
ReplyDeleteI'm sure Buddy will look fabby for the pics,I can't wait to see them.xx♥
Congrats to the Graduate! Sounds like he's gonna be rocking out the high fashion duds :)
ReplyDeleteHusband wants to move our accounts to his employers credit union. I am balking at the idea for the very reasons you mention. I know that anxiety all too well!
ReplyDeleteI remember those days. I don't miss them. I know you're tough and you'll make a funny post out of it later, but I hope you can find a little time for yourself too.
ReplyDeleteYou're in the homestretch, girlie! Congrats to Buddy.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to Buddy!!!
ReplyDeleteI think everyone hates change and finds it stressful - it can be scary! Also, it's true what you say about the end of the school year - they pack in stuff (and forget us moms are trying to enjoy our last days of freedom!) and then there's that change of the kids being around all the time. It's a good change, but it still causes anxiety.
Hang in there - it's hump day!
My bank just got bought out and I'm learning their new online system right now - I'm also trying to figure out what accounts I need to contact that I have auto pay for. It can certainly get overwhelming!
ReplyDeleteCongrats to Buddy. Hope he has a great graduation day!
First, congrats to Buddy! Hang in there - the homestretch is almost over!!
ReplyDeleteChanging banks is always fun. We just refinanced with the SAME bank, and even that was a pain.
ReplyDeleteIt will all be back to normal soon, won't it? At least normal for the summer.
ReplyDeleteI was considering changing banks not to long ago. But, my sister and her husband, who use the same bank I do changed and it was all kinds of hell. So, I stuck with mine.
ReplyDeleteHave fun at the graduation.
Oh, I remember Nate's graduation from grade school. Now I'm just hopeful he passes the 7th grade. I'm a little anxious about that.
ReplyDeleteEverything will go fine and then you'll have a glorious summer.
I'm not sure I'm into all these all these grad ceremonies for everything from kindergarten to 8th grade to swimming lessons.
ReplyDeleteI think it's all a bit over done.
What are we gonna top it with when they actually grad out of high-school?
Seems a bit much to me.
I always recommend B-complex for anxiety, it really takes the edge off and it can't hurt. : )
They've stopped doing 8th grade graduations down here, and I was so disappointed. I was looking forward to it. :( But I don't blame you one bit for being ready for summer. Maybe it will be like last year and everyone will be able to sleep in some! :)
ReplyDeleteLisa - Yes, thank goodness for the wine!
ReplyDeleteNatalie - I'm not even sure I got any good ones!
Ron - I know he was excited!
Dana - once it's a done deal, I can relax!
SugarCain - yep, I already have some funny stuff lined up!
Gigi - Thanks! Just a few more days...
Momma - Thanks! I am hanging in there!
Vinomom - It's a bitch, isn't it?
TGG - Thanks...If I can just hold up for another week, I'll be ok.
3C - Yep, I'm kinda wishing I hadn't started this ball rolling already.
Kenju - In about a week, it'll be back to my "normal". :-)
Jay - the graduation was cute. This whole bank thing? Not so much.
Inanna - we need to meditate (or medicate) together! LOL.
powdergirl - I know, it seems overkill, doesn't it? But, I guess it helps the kids transition to the next big thing.
Honeywine - I don't think they do the 8th grade stuff here either. I guess the kids are old enough to transition to high school with all the "fluff". :-)
Interesting your talking about banking. I just got a call from my bank that the service station where I last brought gas has been identified as a "suspect" location and advising me to get to my local branch for a new debt card because the one I now have has had its withdrawal privileges suspended (don't you like the way banks talk?).
ReplyDeleteGrab a box of wine etw...it'll be over before you know it!
ReplyDeleteSheesh! That's a crapload of things needed for the last day of school! I hope he has a great day at the park, and you have a relaxing night after the graduation.
ReplyDeleteChanging banks is like changing husbands. YOu don't realize how much the old one was lacking until you get the new one.
ReplyDeleteHave fun with the graduation. Looking forward to the pics.
Hold on to your head, it will be over soon and then on to your lovely summer.
ReplyDeleteGood luck! And breathe. The world is a little better with some oxygen in our systems.
ReplyDeleteThe only graduation I had was my high school. We didn't do any other the grades in between.
ReplyDeleteSorry things are so hectic! Hope they calm down soon. But isn't that what adavan and wine are for?
We don't have all this till December.....wishing you big energy for the day :)
ReplyDeleteCan't wait to see the pics, and just try to relax. My kiddos got out Friday so my phone at work is constantly ringing.
ReplyDeletesome of your hooch in a box should help with the anxiety...better wait till you get home though. You would not want to be known as "one of those mom's". Congrats, your in the home stretch now!
ReplyDeleteI'll just be soooo glad for school to end and not to have to buy any more uniform pants for my son. I swear he has gone through a zillion this year!
ReplyDeleteit's seems that you hate change and uncertainty. It's okay to be in "limbo" for a bit. Breathe deeply...:P
ReplyDeleteThings like that send me into the same frenzy as well. My hubby hates it when I get into that mind frame, but he loves it when I finally can relax when it is over. I love the summer. School stresses me out with all the dates and forms and such. Take care. Have fun at Camden Park. I have not been there in ages!
ReplyDeleteBeing overwhelmed sucks. I hope Buddy's day was awesome and Mom got to enjoy it too.
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